Monday, March 28, 2011

Jeffrey Michael Stark

FAIR WARNING: THIS IS A CHEESY FREAKING POST!!!
Jeffrey  Michael Stark might just be the greatest man alive. There is not one reason or another to point out of why I have come to this conclusion. Do you ever have one of those (or in my case, lots of those) moments when you look at your spouse and think how much you love them...I am not sure why but I can't stop thinking about him and how cute he is. He has been SO supportive over our MANY trials in the past 6+ years. He has made me stronger and tougher and happier than I ever thought possible. Don't get me wrong we have most definitely had our moments. At times early on, we were not quite sure how we were going to get through certain things. We still have our fights like any other couple but they are now few and far between and over extremely stupid things that end up meaning nothing. He is seriously my rock. He has surprised me with patience and kindness when I am not sure I would have done the same if the situations were reversed. He helps around the house literally more than any other guy I have ever met! He even cooks and WELL! He is SOO freaking attractive and fun. People think of Jeff as a quiet, keep to himself kind of person. He is none of those things when you get to know him. He is funny and witty and clever and SMART! I love that no matter what mood he is in I can ALWAYS make him laugh. Everyone reading this probably knows I do stupid things and find them funny most of the time. He laughs with me. He plays hide and seek with me inside Walmart on my 25th birthday. He loves me with my flaws and puts up with my OUT OF CONTROL OCD problems. :) (side note: please tell me I am not the only one that color coordinates my closet by hanger, shirt color and style...) He works his butt off in everything he does and pretty much never does a halfway job. He is getting his MBA and says when he is done people "can just call him master Jeff".  As much as I want a baby and we are both extremely ready for this in our lives, I am so grateful that we have had that time (and then some) to get to know each other. We have been able to travel more than most and pick up and leave on last minute notice for weekend getaways. We have been able to re-do our house and will continue to do this until we are happy and then probably move. We have gotten to know each other inside and out and I LOVE his insides and out. He has given me strength where I thought there was none to be found. He has cheered me up during stupid drama and problems. He is the one person in my life that I know has my back through it all. He is the most trustworthy and upfront person. He calls me out on things I don't want to see and helps me be better. All around, he is perfect to me and perfect for me! He is the best guy out there! He may not love kids as much as I do but I know he is going to be the most amazing dad someday. There is no greater person out there in my eyes. So Jeff even though you only look at this from time to time I hope eventually you find this on your own and see how much I love you, in case I don't say it enough!! ;)   Sorry to everyone else that just read this CHEESY post.

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